Sex education is important. So many times people are ignorant of even the most basic of information. The phrase "how come no one told me that?" will come up time and time again. This could be after a sex educator has held up an anatomical drawing of the female genitalia, talked about the importance of breathing and relaxation during sex, shown a workshop group a vibrator for the first time and told them exactly what to do with it!!
Properly, professionally constructed sex education workshops are not mucky or pornographic and the students will come from all walks of life. Sitting next to each other may be sassy 30-somethings earning good money in top jobs, school dinner ladies in their 40's looking for some spice in their tired relationships, young first time mothers who want sex but are too tired to even think about it, singles newly on the dating scene or empty nesters in their 50's whose kids have just left to go to University who have turned round to look at their partner and said "who are you?" All these people have in common is a hunger to change the sex and relationships in their lives. Someone once said knowledge is power - knowledge is also confidence.
The confidence to get what we want out of our relationships, to ask for and get what we want is probably the most difficult to achieve. Sure we are great at designing the new kitchen, sorting where we are going on our holidays, buying the new car, but when it comes to saying "when you leave your dirty clothes all over the floor it makes me feel like a doormat!" Where are we?
Well, how does your relationship with your partner rate? Do you really discuss and finish conversations with each other so that you both feel heard and understood? Are you angry with your partner, withholding sex as a punishment and don't know how to resolve this?
If you want to learn to cook well you go and have lessons and you practice. If you want to have the most beautiful abundant garden in the neighborhood through your own effort you learn from books, you join a garden club and you try out new and different things. If you want the best relationship in the world with the most passionate and loving sex you.........Well what do you do?
Mostly what is learned about relationships comes from observing others, the media and if people are lucky, from good teachers at school setting the right example. Too often dysfunctional family relationships end in poor relationship skills. But this can be changed and new ways of doing things can be learned by making a conscious effort to educate us. Any personal development program whether at work or in your personal life is time well spent and the benefits far outweigh the time and effort needed to embrace them fully. Life coaches are just people who coach you on life. Select a good one you can trust and follow a program either on your own or with your partner. Find out in your area where there is a program for more information on sexual relationships. It is important to have factual and accurate information on sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy but far more important to have information on pleasure, commitment and responsibility in our sexual relationships too.
It is important to learn how your body responds to touch, to erotic thought processes, to seeing and hearing arousing images and sounds. Whether what you taste or smell is arousing too. All these factors influence the arousal process and it is no good getting into a relationship and expecting your partner to know. How can they possibly know if you don't know yourself? Of course part of the fun is experimenting and finding out, but many couples do not experiment and end up frustrated in more ways than one.
Betty Dodson the New Yorker who for the past 30 years and more has advocated good sex education for the best relationships, is still finding it an uphill struggle to convince people that their relationship will stand a better chance of survival if couples educate themselves in this way so that they are effectively able to communicate their needs.
Wednesday 23 November 2011
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Wednesday 16 November 2011
Are You In A Relationship With Someone Who Has a Sex Addiction?
Are you in a relationship with someone who has a sex addiction? If you are reading this, chances are that you have a suspicion that this type of addiction is playing a role in your relationship. Surprisingly, you are not alone. Yet, you probably feel as if you are. That is a common misconception when it comes to victims of a partner who has a sexual addiction. While sexual addiction is more or less a taboo subject, more individuals suffer from the effects of this type of relationship than you know. You are not alone. Here is some information regarding this type of addiction so that you may have a better understanding of it.
What is Sexual Addiction?
Sexual addiction encompasses many different thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. Individuals who suffer from this type of condition often have relatively unusually high levels of interest in sex, various acts of sex, and beliefs on how one should perform while engaging in sexual acts. Their libido is exceptionally high, and their obsession with sex, sexual acts, and sexual pleasure is normally exceptionally high. This may have always been present with the individual, or it may simply come up out of nowhere. In many cases, the individual will appear to have a low sex drive and not exhibit any signs and then, suddenly, may seem to jump from that extreme to this extreme.
Common Behaviors
There are many common behaviors that may become evident in the individual who experiences sex addiction. If you are the "partner" in the relationship, these behaviors may lead to anxiety, depression, devastation, and similar emotions and states of the mind. This is especially true if you are "forced" in one way or another to indulge in the acts that stem from the behaviors that your partner has. These behaviors include:
• You may find that your partner has a higher desire to indulge in self-stimulation than that which is considered to be within the "norm". In many cases, this is accompanied by observing pornographic materials such as DVDs, magazines, websites, and other means of visual enticement.
• Many that develop an addiction to sex will likely pursue physical affairs outside of the relationship that they are part of.
• Many may persist in having sexual intercourse in which "friends" are involved. This could be as simple as just one other person or as severe as several people at once.
• Many with the addiction may encourage their partners to engage in sexual acts with another person so that they may watch from a distance.
• If a partner is hesitant about becoming involved with the acts in which the addict wants performed, the addict by try to manipulate through the means of "sweet talking", stating that they are in the leadership role of the relationship, or becoming physically abusive. In a number of cases, if a physical fight is initiated so that the partner may protect themselves, they may be forced into the act.
• Sexual crimes may be committed by the individual with this type of addiction.
Get Help
If you are in a relationship with a sex addict, you may try talking the issues over and trying to resolve them. However, this depends largely on the severity of the addiction and the ways in which you have suffered. For example, if you are consistently forced to engage in the fantasies that your partner has, or are subjected to violence in any way, you should seek help and bypass talking things out. However, if the sexual addict has simply started vocalizing their desires, talking may be appropriate. Are you in a relationship with someone that has a sexual addiction? If so, there is hope. There is a way out. It is simply up to you to find it….
What is Sexual Addiction?
Sexual addiction encompasses many different thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. Individuals who suffer from this type of condition often have relatively unusually high levels of interest in sex, various acts of sex, and beliefs on how one should perform while engaging in sexual acts. Their libido is exceptionally high, and their obsession with sex, sexual acts, and sexual pleasure is normally exceptionally high. This may have always been present with the individual, or it may simply come up out of nowhere. In many cases, the individual will appear to have a low sex drive and not exhibit any signs and then, suddenly, may seem to jump from that extreme to this extreme.
Common Behaviors
There are many common behaviors that may become evident in the individual who experiences sex addiction. If you are the "partner" in the relationship, these behaviors may lead to anxiety, depression, devastation, and similar emotions and states of the mind. This is especially true if you are "forced" in one way or another to indulge in the acts that stem from the behaviors that your partner has. These behaviors include:
• You may find that your partner has a higher desire to indulge in self-stimulation than that which is considered to be within the "norm". In many cases, this is accompanied by observing pornographic materials such as DVDs, magazines, websites, and other means of visual enticement.
• Many that develop an addiction to sex will likely pursue physical affairs outside of the relationship that they are part of.
• Many may persist in having sexual intercourse in which "friends" are involved. This could be as simple as just one other person or as severe as several people at once.
• Many with the addiction may encourage their partners to engage in sexual acts with another person so that they may watch from a distance.
• If a partner is hesitant about becoming involved with the acts in which the addict wants performed, the addict by try to manipulate through the means of "sweet talking", stating that they are in the leadership role of the relationship, or becoming physically abusive. In a number of cases, if a physical fight is initiated so that the partner may protect themselves, they may be forced into the act.
• Sexual crimes may be committed by the individual with this type of addiction.
Get Help
If you are in a relationship with a sex addict, you may try talking the issues over and trying to resolve them. However, this depends largely on the severity of the addiction and the ways in which you have suffered. For example, if you are consistently forced to engage in the fantasies that your partner has, or are subjected to violence in any way, you should seek help and bypass talking things out. However, if the sexual addict has simply started vocalizing their desires, talking may be appropriate. Are you in a relationship with someone that has a sexual addiction? If so, there is hope. There is a way out. It is simply up to you to find it….
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Black Country Chaos - Masturbation in Public
Black Country Chaos - Masturbation in Public
Little Miss Chaos takes a trip to Dudley in the Black Country on a freezing December day. Braving the icy winds, she keeps warm by masturbating continually through the day, in the streets, canals and even an abandoned shopping trolley.
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Dellicious Dolly
Getting naked and misbehaving in public is a new experience for new girl Dolly. We started in Sutton Park in north Birmingham, to calm her nerves, but the plan backfired, since being a Bank Holiday the park was extremely busy.
Tuesday 15 November 2011
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Monday 14 November 2011
Friday 11 November 2011
How to Use Masturbation to Beat Premature Ejaculation (Secrets to Boost Stamina in Bed Exposed!)
Remember, masturbation should be a process of training when you have premature ejaculation. Rushing through it - no matter how eager you are about getting off - is the worst thing you do. You should progressively stretch the process out to 15 to 20 minutes, so that you reap real benefits from this technique.
Remember, you can use masturbation not just for your own self-seeking pleasure, but as a super effective springboard to control your premature ejaculation. These four tips will get you started the right way.
By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com
If you have been wondering about how to beat premature ejaculation and increase your stamina in bed, you will want to read this now. Did you know that masturbation - if performed in the right way - can boost your sexual stamina? It's true. However, there are 4 important tips you need to remember if you are ever going to make a success out of it.Tip #1 - Don't Ever Do It Without the Right Lubricant
The purpose of masturbation, especially when you are doing it to last longer in bed, is to make the experience as close as you can to normal sex. When you masturbate without a lubricant, your penis becomes extremely sensitive to a dry hand. So, once you start your experience with your woman, your penis will not be able to adjust to a warm and moist environment. Always use a lubricant when you are masturbating. It is the smart thing to do.Tip #2 - Do Not Rush Through It
Men are naturally hardwired to stimulate themselves to ejaculate quickly during masturbation. But to adapt masturbatory techniques to boost sexual endurance, you have to do it differently. Take it S-L-O-W. If you are the type who gets it over in one minute flat, you may have a tough job getting used to it. Here's the trick: Stop all stimulation when you feel close to a climax.Remember, masturbation should be a process of training when you have premature ejaculation. Rushing through it - no matter how eager you are about getting off - is the worst thing you do. You should progressively stretch the process out to 15 to 20 minutes, so that you reap real benefits from this technique.
Tip #3 - Do Not Get Distracted
The right time to train yourself is when you are relaxed, and not likely to be distracted. If you are in a hurry, just don't do it.Tip #4 - Avoid Getting Overly Excited
Most men go about using this technique in an incorrect manner. You see, some men will watch pornography until they start getting an arousal. Then they start to stimulate themselves. That is wrong. Ideally, you should be building up the arousal right from the start. It is only then that you will understand when and how to control your arousal, which is the most vital component in helping you enjoy longer lasting sex without ejaculating early.Remember, you can use masturbation not just for your own self-seeking pleasure, but as a super effective springboard to control your premature ejaculation. These four tips will get you started the right way.
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
What is Premature Ejaculation (And What You Can Do About it to Achieve Explosive Sexual Stamina!)
The bottom line is, premature ejaculation is very common and is a treatable condition. By understanding why you are ejaculating prematurely, you can use the appropriate solutions to permanently end your ejaculation problems and achieve the coveted ability to enjoy long-lasting sex!
By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com
What exactly is premature ejaculation? Well, it depends on who you ask. But the common consensus is that if you regularly come to a climax too early during sex without fulfilling your partner, you may be one of many men who are suffering from premature ejaculation (PE). As many as one in three men are believed to be afflicted with this sexual dysfunction. Actual figures may actually be higher as this is an embarrassing ailment that not many guys are willing to openly discuss.What are the symptoms of premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation can be categorized by lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). The former can be characterized by early ejaculation within one minute following intercourse. This is often accompanied by a severe lack of confidence in bed and in worst cases, an avoidance of sex altogether. On the other hand, secondary PE is often marked by persistent ejaculation before both you and your partner wish that it happens. Guys who are experiencing secondary PE usually have enjoyed fulfilling sexual relationships in the past.Are you at risk?
There are some men who are at higher risks of developing premature ejaculation. These include guys who are suffering from some form of erectile dysfunction. Men who have problems with erection often subconsciously hurry through sexual intercourse for fear of losing their erections. One of the biggest contributors to early ejaculation is stress or emotional strain. So men who are often emotionally stressed out are at a higher risk of ejaculating early during sex. This is nature's way of releasing tension that has been pent up.Do you need to seek medical attention?
If your lack of sexual endurance is causing great distress to you and your partner, it is recommended that you seek medical assistance. The doctor would be able to advice on the appropriate treatment to help you cope with the problem. In some cases, the doctor will even suggest that you are not even experiencing early ejaculation, especially if it occurs only occasionally. Likewise, if you can satisfy your partner even if you do not last more than 2 to 4 minutes during intercourse, there is no real cause for concern.Coping with premature ejaculation
There are many forms of treatments, and what you choose to use will depend on the severity of your condition. These options include natural sexual therapy and conditioning, such as the squeeze technique to re-wire your ejaculatory triggers; medications that include the use of anti-depressants or topical anesthetic creams or sprays.The bottom line is, premature ejaculation is very common and is a treatable condition. By understanding why you are ejaculating prematurely, you can use the appropriate solutions to permanently end your ejaculation problems and achieve the coveted ability to enjoy long-lasting sex!
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
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